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Here you'll find new ideas and simple techniques designed to dissolve negative emotion so you feel lighter, calmer, and happier. :) Join the conversation, your comments are welcomed and appreciated.

Invite More Joy by Re-Centering after a Confrontation or Stressful Moment

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"A moment of patience in a moment of anger prevents a thousand moments of regret."

Today we make room for joy by working to heal ourselves, to find compassion even when we're feeling anger or a thousand thoughts of regret.

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Letting Go and Bringing More Lightness into Your Life

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Love all Your Moments by Making Your Time Count

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Do you feel like time is your friend and there's plenty of it or do you constantly feel like you're rushing against the clock?

When I was first learning about emotional healing and energy medicine, one of my teachers told me I needed to "clear" my belief that "time was my enemy and I needed to constantly rush and fight with it." :/

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Happy Memorial Day! A Simple Clearing to Live More Fully and Put the Past to Rest

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Today as I was thinking about Memorial Day and all those who have passed on, I am reminded how short life is. How precious every moment we have together is.

The truth is, this day will never come again! We will never be this age again or exactly this way again ever! Life is like a river and we can never step in the same river twice.

I think we all know this truth logically but we don’t usually let it fully sink in because when we do, the magnitude and impact of it is so powerful it takes our breath away!

Recently I really got this, for just a moment, I got it with my whole being and it changed me!

I think when we’re raising our kids we all know that we need to enjoy everything. We know that they’re growing up and things are changing… but we can be so overwhelmed by all the stuff going on and our own exhaustion and pressures of life it doesn’t always sink in.

The moment I went to visit my oldest son it hit me like a ton of bricks that he was forming his own life.  It dawned on me that the moments of him living as my little boy at home were gone! I knew this, my mind was aware, but for some reason, my body, heart and gut hadn’t yet received the memo.

When it hit my heart and gut, I actually felt this huge truth for just a moment with my whole being! How precious life is, how every moment counts! Everything!!!! My heart got it and it doubled me over with grief. It changed me completely in that one split second.

Interesting how life does that to us sometimes. :/
Bittersweet moments I guess..
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Today, in honor of Memorial Day, I wanted to share a healing exercise that would help clear the stuff that gets in the way of us connecting and fully enjoying life and the people around us.

Let’s release the old baggage, the hurt feelings, the unresolved issues that keep us from savoring and fully feeling those we love and all the amazing stuff that’s happening right now where we are in the “river!”

In memory of all the past heartaches, disappointments, failures, upsets….
Let’s start putting some of it to rest so we can live more fully and emotionally available for those we love and for ourselves!


Use this simple process to clear things out and unplug!
This process is called the Temporal Tap. If you’ve been with me for a while, you’re already familiar with this technique. I use it a lot because we can use variations of it to accomplish all kinds of different results. 
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In order to get the most out of today’s clearing process, take a quick minute to think about the following questions:

Is there something that has happened or is going on right now that feels overwhelming and heavy?

Is there something you have recently been through that has let you feeling broken, disillusioned, or just closed off?

Is there something that has left you feeling stuck in a really painful place where the emotions feel almost like quicksand? The stress and hurt of it is all around you but you just can’t get out?

Put your focus and intention on healing and unplugging from whatever it is that’s going on or has went on in the past, as you do this tapping process.
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There are only two steps to this process.

Step One: Tap up and over your left ear while making the following statements:

(These statements are formed by saying “I am no longer….” They are languaged this way in order to acknowledge what’s going on and what you’re feeling. The left brain is logical and linear based so it responds better when we address what’s happening realistically. Step two will incorporate the right brain. This is when we can add positive language and affirmations. The right brain is more creative and possibility based so it’s more open and receptive to new ideas and solutions.)

Using the fingertips of your left hand, tap up and over your left ear while making the following statements:

“I am no longer willing to be paralyzed and frozen by this difficult situation.”

“I am no longer willing to believe that I will never be okay and never recover.”

“I am no longer willing to carry this heavy pain and heart-ache.”

“I am no longer willing to carry these heavy feelings of blame and negativity toward all those that may have been involved. Even though it didn’t feel fair and I really needed them to have considered others and the damage they caused, I am no longer willing to carry the pain and discomfort of waiting for their acknowledgement and apologies.”

“I am no longer willing to keep my life and happiness on hold because of this difficult thing I went through.”

“I am no longer willing to believe that healing and lightness is not possible or available for me.”

“I am no longer available for these kinds of painful experiences.”
Take a few deep breaths…
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Step Two: Using the fingertips of your right hand, tap up and over the right ear while making the following statements

“I am now choosing to feel more love and lightness in my life.”

“I am now choosing to let go and unplug my focus and energy from this situation and all those that were involved.”

“I am now choosing to see the whole situation as being surrounded by spiritual assistance and being worked out for the highest good of all involved.”

“I am now choosing to forgive myself for being buried with this for so long.”

“I am now choosing to forgive the situation and all those who may have been involved. The truth is, I'm feeling hurt and uneasy. I needed to see myself and others handle things better and it hurts they didn’t or I didn’t but I’m willing to accept that we're all doing the best we know how in each moment and it’s time to let go.”

“I am now choosing love, peace, and harmony for my life going forward. I am choosing to feel light and free and know that I’ll be okay no matter what happens.”

“I am now choosing to let go and release the past.”

“I am now choosing to savor every moment and remember that it will never come again.”

Take a few more deep breaths and send thoughts of love and gratitude for everything that you have and that is going really well in your life.

Happy Memorial Day. Loving others and celebrating the lives that have passed and the lives we are living now is a wonderful tribute to those we remember today.

Thanks for reading and participating in this! You’re kindness and encouragement mean a lot to me. 
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A New Beginning Starts with the Confidence to Let Go

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(Clearing Video!) How to Brighten Your Life and Release What's No Longer Needed

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Having Trouble Sleeping? Turn Things Around by Quieting the Inner Noise

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Today I heard something that really disturbed me so I think it's time someone spoke up about it!

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Finding Empowerment, When you want to be Responsive vs. Reactive

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Lighten Your Life and Sparkle with Confidence in 2017,

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Unleash Your Inner Glimmer this Holiday Season!

Unleash Your Inner Glimmer this Holiday Season!
Don't you just love it when everything just seems to go right? When you're in the flow, everyone's getting along and you get home and just think, "Wow! What a great night! I feel so good! I loved hanging out with these people!"When the energy is right and everything seems to be flowing, there can be burned food, a dish broken, drink spilled, whatev...
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Struggling with Illness? Help Lighten Things Up When You're having a Bad Day

Struggling with Illness? Help Lighten Things Up When You're having a Bad Day
Chronic health issues can mess with you so much! They can make you feel defeated, worn down and like "Why bother!"If you look too far ahead, it can be easy to fall into spiraling thoughts like, "It will never be better than this, I give up, If it's never going to be better than this, I'm done."This can lock you into a really scary place creating fe...
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Clearing the Emotional Energy that's Hiding in Your Clutter

Clearing the Emotional Energy that's Hiding in Your Clutter
Hi Everyone! Have you ever noticed that sometimes there are just corners, closets, or rooms that seem impossible to clean or find the energy to even get to?There's so much more to say about it but it doesn't neatly fit in a picture graphic. :/ Especially in a cases that involve loss, huge life changes, and really deep grief.I knew a woman once...
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How to Maintain Balance When You're Surrounded by Conflict

How to Maintain Balance When You're Surrounded by Conflict
Hi Everyone! Last week I decided to listen to the last presidential debate while catching up on some housework.  Big mistake!!!! By the end of it, not only was my body feeling tense, but my whole disposition, had somehow absorbed it all and become combative. Before I knew it, I was snapping at my whole family over nothing!How are you feeling a...
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The Common Cold Remedy that No one's Talking About

The Common Cold Remedy that No one's Talking About
Are you struggling with a head cold? If you are, please check this out and let me know what you think! Lately I've noticed lots of people coming down with colds and feeling miserable. Is it just me or are these minor colds getting tougher and tougher to beat? Instead of being a few miserable days, it seems like they're now stretching into weeks or ...
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Finding Joy When You've Forgotten how to Laugh!

AdobeStock 108702176I was standing at the concert. Everyone around me was swaying to the music and clapping their hands. I hadn’t been to a concert (just for fun) in 20 years. The only reason I was even there was the surprise night out had been a birthday gift from my parents.
I felt stiff and awkward trying to relax and clap along. My body seemed rigid instead of flowing with the music, and I felt like crying for some reason. :/
In that moment, it hit me how serious and heavy I had let my life become. I had grown obsessive about learning and dealing with life’s problems. Every day had become filled with serious study, serious books, serious workouts, and even serious conversations filled with a constant analyzing of life and always trying to get to the deeper meaning of everything..


Don’t get me wrong, I love all these things! Good, in depth conversations are still my favorite!
Yet, last night it dawned on me how much I had forgotten how to let go, be silly, and just have fun! To laugh and talk about nothing, the things like the funny pants the drummer was wearing, the 75 year old man on steel guitar drinking a can of red cream soda… Life is full of hilarious, random moments designed to lighten things up yet I’d been missing the opportunity to laugh and enjoy the majority of them.

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Finding Your Inner Rebel: How to Excel and Thrive During Tough Times

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In last week’s blog post I highlighted the Balance Wheel and how we could work on rounding it out.
This week I’m excited to share with you an important discovery! A vitally important yet often buried and forgotten part of the wheel!
I have to admit I had no idea that this particular section even existed until a few months ago! the rebel fighter
Here’s what happened!

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How to Break Free When Your Life Feels Out of Balance!

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Do you ever just feel off? You know that feeling of being at odds with your life? Like this subtle uneasiness that just keeps you feeling on edge and agitated?

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A Clearing to Take Care of You When it feels like Your Family is Falling Apart

Saving sanity family conflictDo you struggle with anxiety or worry? When we stress and anguish excessively about something, it puts us at risk energetically to absorb other people's issues and problems. This doesn't help them (as they will just re-create it momentarily) but it can break us down and make us feel shaky, sick, drained, and literally like we're going crazy!

For me, what I’m finding helps is to visualize the person or situation as being surrounded by a Spiritual Healing Team of comfort, guidance, and support to help things along. I ask for the support and then know that it’s my task to work to release my own fear, anguish, need to control, panic, and attachment to how I think it all should work out, etc.

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What to do when Tapping/Energy Clearing Seems to Make You Feel Worse???

So….What if you’ve just done some tapping or other clearing work and now you’re feeling more stressed, on-edge, or just plain yucky? Healing when lifes too much blog

 

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A Calming Exercise to Release Sadness and Grief and Help Restore Balance to your Lungs.

Did you know that sadness and grief tend to have a direct effect on the lungs?

Chinese Medicine teaches that each of our emotions will have a different effect on each of our organs.

If you're going through a tough time, I hope this will offer you a healing lift. Unfortunately sadness and grief are just part of the experience that is life. In order for new chapters to open, completed chapters have to close whether we're ready for them to or not. Sometimes chapters seem too short or they close before they even really got started, it hurts... It seems critical that we learn how to release and move through the sadness and grief the best we can so at least it doesn't become stuck and affect our ability to breathe...

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